The Right Friends Week 3 : Unfriending
Here's a 5-day Bible reading plan and devotional guide based on the themes from the message:
Day 1: Choosing Wise Companions Reading: Proverbs 13:20, Proverbs 12:26 Devotional: As we begin this journey, let's reflect on the power of our associations. God's Word reminds us that the company we keep shapes our character and future. Today, take inventory of your closest relationships. Are they leading you closer to God or pulling you away? Remember, it's not about judging others, but about wisely choosing influences that align with God's plan for your life. Pray for discernment in your friendships and for the courage to make changes if necessary. How can you be intentional about surrounding yourself with godly wisdom today?
Day 2: Being Light in Darkness Reading: Matthew 5:14-16, 2 Corinthians 6:14-18 Devotional: We're called to be light in a dark world, yet also warned not to be unequally yoked. This tension reflects our mission as Christians - to influence without being influenced negatively. Consider how Jesus modeled this balance, loving sinners without compromising His mission. Today, ask God to strengthen your spiritual roots so your reach can extend further. How can you shine Christ's light in your everyday interactions while maintaining your spiritual integrity? Reflect on one specific way you can be salt and light in a challenging relationship or environment.
Day 3: Redefining Relationships Reading: 1 Corinthians 15:33, Genesis 39:7-12 Devotional: Sometimes, loving others means setting boundaries. Joseph's example teaches us the importance of fleeing temptation, even when it comes from those close to us. Reflect on relationships in your life that may be leading you away from God's best. This isn't about rejecting people, but about redefining dynamics that threaten your spiritual well-being. Pray for wisdom to navigate these situations with grace and firmness. How can you maintain a heart of love while establishing necessary boundaries? Consider one relationship that may need redefining and ask God for guidance in approaching it.
Day 4: Unconditional Love, Conditional Trust Reading: John 13:34-35, Matthew 10:16 Devotional: Jesus commands us to love unconditionally, yet also to be "wise as serpents and innocent as doves." This teaches us that while our love should know no bounds, our trust and close associations should be discerning. Reflect on how Jesus loved everyone but had an inner circle of disciples. How can you extend Christ's love to all while wisely choosing your closest influences? Today, practice showing God's love to someone who challenges you, while also reinforcing your commitment to godly relationships. Ask God to fill you with His love and wisdom in balancing these aspects.
Day 5: Growing Deeper to Reach Wider Reading: Colossians 2:6-7, Matthew 28:19-20 Devotional: Our ability to impact the world for Christ is directly related to the depth of our spiritual roots. As we conclude this week, focus on deepening your relationship with God. The stronger your foundation, the further your influence can extend without compromise. Spend time in prayer, asking God to strengthen your spiritual core. How can you invest in your spiritual growth today? Consider committing to a new spiritual discipline or deepening an existing one. Remember, as you grow closer to God, He expands your capacity to love and reach others with His truth and grace.